G-spot, clitoral orgasms originate from same spot

A recent research has claimed that clitoral and G-spot orgasms originate from the same area.

Studies have been conducted to support the view that the sensitive tissue in the G-spot, a bean-shaped area of the anterior vaginal wall that can augment overall arousal, orgasms and female ejaculation, when stimulated, may be part of the clitoris and is not a separate erogenous zone.

Dr Helen O’Connell, an internationally recognised Melbourne urologist, who has done significant research on the clitoris, claims that “the vaginal wall is, in fact, the clitoris” and stimulation of the internal parts of the clitoris during vaginal penetration can generate vaginal orgasm.

This finding has lead to sexologists being concerned about the fact that that women may consider themselves to be dysfunctional if they cannot find their G-Spot, but Dr Petra Boynton said that the level of sensitivity in every woman differs.

“We’re all different. Some women will have a certain area within the vagina which will be very sensitive, and some won’t - but they won’t necessarily be in the area called the G-Spot,” the Daily telegraph quoted Boynton as saying.

“If a woman spends all her time worrying about whether she has a G-Spot or not, she will focus on just one area and ignore everything else.

“It’s telling people that there is a single, best way to have sex, which isn’t the right thing to do,” she added.

Women distracted during sex face trouble reaching orgasm

Women who are distracted during sex have trouble reaching orgasm, according to new research.

Women who reported more trouble reaching orgasm during sex also had more automatic negative thoughts during the act, the report said.



These negative thoughts included everything from those lacking erotic imagery to thoughts of sexual failure and sexual abuse.


These negative thoughts included everything from those lacking erotic imagery to thoughts of sexual failure and sexual abuse.

“There is no easy way to avoid negative or distractive thoughts,” study researcher Marta Xavier Cuntim, a clinical psychologist in Portugal, told LiveScience.

“However, if we know that they exist, it is easier to learn to deal with them.”

About one in four women experiences difficulty reaching orgasm for months at a time, and the inability to orgasm is the second-most-common female sexual complaint after lack of desire.

The new study questioned 191 sexually active women between the ages of 18 and 59 about their sexual function and the types of thoughts they experienced during sex.

Because the study asked women to look back on their experiences, the data doesn’t reveal whether the difficulty reaching orgasm triggered the negative thoughts, whether the negative thoughts triggered the orgasm trouble, or some cycle of both.

But certain psychological vulnerabilities may lead to the negative thoughts, Cuntim said. Women with sexual dysfunction often carry around mental baggage, such as concerns that sex is bad or that they have undesirable bodies, she added.

Those thoughts raise the risk of sexual difficulties.

The research will be published in the journal Sexologies.

Some women can't have an orgasm

Dutch researchers have unraveled the secrets behind female orgasms

They discovered that the female orgasm leads to an altered state of consciousness, a finding that could help find a way to a cure for women who cannot climax.

While examining the brain scans of women taken while they orgasmed, lead researcher Janniko Georgiadis at the University of Groningen and his team found that a part of the brain called the orbitofrontal cortex (OFC) actually 'switches off' when a woman climaxed.

Georgiadis said the OFC may be the basis for 'sexual control', and that by 'letting go' women can induce orgasm.

"I don''t think orgasm turns off consciousness but it changes it. When you ask people how they perceive their orgasm, they describe a feeling of a loss of control," the Daily Mail quoted him as telling New Scientist.

"I''m not sure if this altered state is necessary to achieve more pleasure or is just some side effect," he added.

To create the scans, the researchers strapped the women into an MRI scanner and then allowed their partners to pleasure them to orgasm, all the while taking snapshots of their brain activity.

It is hoped that by comparing the brain scans of women having an orgasm with those who cannot, scientists will be able to 'coach' those with anorgasmia into truly ''letting go''.

It is hoped that by allowing women with anorgasmia to watch their brain activity in real time, they to will be able to ''train'' their brain to copy the same activity of women who can experience orgasm.

Do women really need longer to reach an orgasm?

The belief that women need much more time to reach an orgasm than men has been around for ages. But is it true as well?

No, women don’t necessarily need a lot longer than men to reach an orgasm. US researchers conducted a study in which they included one thousand couples from all around the United States of America. During this particular study, the researchers observed men and women masturbating separately. They concluded that men on average reach an orgasm only a few seconds faster than women.

10 tricks to bigger orgasms

While majority of couples wish to have extended massive orgasm (EMO), not everybody comes down to experiencing these repeated orgasmic waves.

Lovers experiencing one of these massive orgasms have reported enjoying more of life’s joys in general, becoming nicer and more generous in their relationship.

An EMO can last minutes or hours, offering up blissful sensations at increasing intensities, reports Fox News.

And here are the tricks of this tantalizing trade:

1. Truly recognize your pleasure
You want to immediately approve of your present sensations. This starts before you even get in the sack by overcoming anxieties you have about sex. This may require identifying limitations you’ve been taught about sex, like how you’re supposed to respond (or not respond). You need to then challenge any social conditioning that impedes upon your response.

Ridding yourself of the uninvited "others" in your bed will enable you to solely focus on the orgasmic sensations, including ones that come from simply anticipating action.

2. Learn to relax
Lovers have the tendency to tense up during sexual excitement, which is not conducive to extended orgasm. You need to be able to surrender your nervous system during genital stimulation. It’s this letting go of tension that allows you to embrace your pleasure.

3. Get in the know
The more we know about our bodies, sex, and sexual response, the better we can recognize sensations, the more we can lose ourselves in them. Become knowledgeable about sexual response, sexual anatomy, and erotic techniques.

4. Give yourselves time for pleasuring
Lovers may stimulate each other by fantasizing out loud, taking your time getting to the genitals and hot spots. Teasing allows for greater energy awareness and arousal, and these are what make the experience ultimately so mind-blowing.

5. Touch for pleasure
You can show your partner that you are into the moment by informing them about what you are going to do so he or she can surrender more easily. Highlighting a lover’s physical responses further enables them to tune into the sensations.

6. Learn to channel your energy
You want to get out of your head, directing your energy to your groin. This will make for more explosive results, plus help you to further tune into your sexual response.

7. Become an effective communicator
To amplify things up, you may need to request changes that will intensify your pleasure if you’re the receiver. As the giver, you may need to ask for feedback or direction. In either case, asking for more will help you to feel more. Giving approval can do wonders for a lover’s ego.

8. Develop your pelvic floor muscles
Exercising your pubbococcygeus (PC) muscle will put you more in tune with your sexual response. It’s also what makes for more powerful orgasms.

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Updated on Tuesday, November 03, 2009, 18:54 IST Tags:orgasms, sex, sex life
London: While majority of couples wish to have extended massive orgasm (EMO), not everybody comes down to experiencing these repeated orgasmic waves.

Lovers experiencing one of these massive orgasms have reported enjoying more of life’s joys in general, becoming nicer and more generous in their relationship.

An EMO can last minutes or hours, offering up blissful sensations at increasing intensities, reports Fox News.

And here are the tricks of this tantalizing trade:

1. Truly recognize your pleasure
You want to immediately approve of your present sensations. This starts before you even get in the sack by overcoming anxieties you have about sex. This may require identifying limitations you’ve been taught about sex, like how you’re supposed to respond (or not respond). You need to then challenge any social conditioning that impedes upon your response.

Ridding yourself of the uninvited "others" in your bed will enable you to solely focus on the orgasmic sensations, including ones that come from simply anticipating action.

2. Learn to relax
Lovers have the tendency to tense up during sexual excitement, which is not conducive to extended orgasm. You need to be able to surrender your nervous system during genital stimulation. It’s this letting go of tension that allows you to embrace your pleasure.

3. Get in the know
The more we know about our bodies, sex, and sexual response, the better we can recognize sensations, the more we can lose ourselves in them. Become knowledgeable about sexual response, sexual anatomy, and erotic techniques.

4. Give yourselves time for pleasuring
Lovers may stimulate each other by fantasizing out loud, taking your time getting to the genitals and hot spots. Teasing allows for greater energy awareness and arousal, and these are what make the experience ultimately so mind-blowing.

5. Touch for pleasure
You can show your partner that you are into the moment by informing them about what you are going to do so he or she can surrender more easily. Highlighting a lover’s physical responses further enables them to tune into the sensations.

6. Learn to channel your energy
You want to get out of your head, directing your energy to your groin. This will make for more explosive results, plus help you to further tune into your sexual response.

7. Become an effective communicator
To amplify things up, you may need to request changes that will intensify your pleasure if you’re the receiver. As the giver, you may need to ask for feedback or direction. In either case, asking for more will help you to feel more. Giving approval can do wonders for a lover’s ego.

8. Develop your pelvic floor muscles
Exercising your pubbococcygeus (PC) muscle will put you more in tune with your sexual response. It’s also what makes for more powerful orgasms.

9. Have plenty of lubricant handy
As you will be loving for the long-haul, make sure you avoid the friction, pain, and discomfort that can result from working each other raw by using lube.

10. Do away with any drive-thru mentality Having an EMO isn’t like going for fast food. One can’t go into it thinking instant gratification. Instead, approach it as though training for a sport.